As a relationship coach my clients come to me to help them solve the problems they’re facing in their relationships. They tell me that they love their partner but it feels so terrible because of all the things that the partner has done wrong. I always tell them that what they’re feeling is not love. Love never feels terrible. Love only ever feels like love.

How many of us have a shared goal with our partners to be happy, only to be arguing with them about the best way to achieve this? How often do we find ourselves wanting to be right and by doing so delaying the process of achieving the goal often to end up walking away and blaming the other person? 

A boundary is for you and the best way to practice self-care